What should Christians say about the increasing noise all around us concerning same sex unions? Well one thing we say is that it is neither wise nor right. But what do we argue for in the larger culture? As our president has made a declaration that we find completely unacceptable on theological and moral grounds, how do we speak to all of the things that surround this? I have a few thoughts here that I am putting down quickly as the beginning of how we think and what we say to this.
This is an area where the church and state have overlapped. It is the state that issues a license to marry and that recognizes the legal bond that has financial and civil implications. The church has given oversight to the ceremony and has served to declare that there is a union. Our church does not issue a license — we host and perform weddings. The state also has an office for this if people choose not to be married in a church.
I have particular views that are theologically based regarding what is wise and right pertaining to marriage. I do not believe that the state (as the state) can or should share my theological beliefs. Neither should the state intrude on them or compromise them. The state cannot compel me to perform any wedding that I do not believe is right.
But as a citizen who is a Christian, on what basis do I ask the state to operate according to my views re/ marriage since the state does not stand in the circle of my belief system? I have to find other bases for this or just not speak to the matter and operate in my own sphere w/ respect to what the state does or does not rule. Are there pragmatic grounds? Are there other criteria that support my own particular values?
I believe that a person should not lose his civil rights just because he out of accord with the biblical view of moral and social things. The rights that married people enjoy as citizens should be common to all — even where they are living in a way that I believe is out of accord with the bible. A person who is an American should have the right to vote even if he belongs to a cult like the Mormons, holds to false and heretical beliefs, or is the most vocal blasphemer in the county. Those in same sex partnerships should have some legal and civil rights even if they are living in a tragic and depraved arrangement. They do not cease to be Americans just because they are not in accord with the biblical pattern.
I believe that marriage is a foundational cultural institution and that when it is damaged the culture is harmed. The fact that the children born today to parents not married to one another hovers at right around 50% is a disaster — more expensive than the bank failures, home loan foreclosures, and the Wall Street scams. Whatever strikes at the foundation of the family threatens the society and civilization at the most fundamental levels.
Does recognizing same sex unions further weaken marriage as a cultural institution? I do not know – but that seems to me to be the first question to ask. Does this have the unintended consequence of opening the door to things such as polygamy or 1 year marriage “contracts?” I do not know that either.
We are crossing a line here and it may have no repercussions and it may have enormous ones — so we need to be very careful.
Either way — I will continue to operate w/in my own ecclesiastical sphere as I always have. People living together in a sexual way who are not married may — and probably do on occasion — attend church at SAPC but they will not be admitted as members. Our message to the culture does not ever change – in Christ there is life and that life is the light of the world. Come to him and live. I will have more to say about this but this is a beginning for considering what promises to be a very volatile topic.
Bill










